“Being good is not good enough ” this is wht my teacher said me once when i was in my 10 std coz i was wasting my time by helpin others ……. this phrase went wid me all along n taught me a lot …….. which made me tough from inside but somewhere down the line i become as i was some few yrs back ……..getting hurt when i fought wid a friend is somethng quite natural ……….. but i have been hurtin myself quite often this days ………
ppl say u get hurt coz u have expectation from ppl around u …….. n its natural to keep expectation frm ppl u have been so long n so tht means gettin hurt quite often will b natural tooo….
jus 2 days bak i had a terrible time wid a friend (he is nt a frd nemore)………. tht says it all v had a long fight it was the first ever fight between us n it blow out of proportion but thn somehow i thought it was my mistake coz i get so emotional wid my frds n stupidly go on makin best frds ………….. widout actually understandin ders no 1 who will b wid u whn u need thm most ……. whn u need a frd someday der will b some1 today n somebody else the next day .. tis is how life goes on ……… whn u r in school u have some very good frds as soon as u join college thy get busy n thn u lose contact n 1 fine day u meet thm at some social networkin site ………. n this thngs goes on n on ……….
few things i learnt dis days is 1) keep a carefree attitude , do wht u like n duniya gayi tel lene
2)jo jaisa hain uske saath aisa hi rehne ka
3)life main kissiko bhi jyada importance nahin dene ka
4) friendhsip is for namesake u make frds so tht u can get some help frm thm n thy can get some help frm u
5)in tht case if some 1 is makin ur life difficult u make his life difficult too …. don jus sit n cry
6) believe in no 1 but only u
allll this is gyan given to me by some ppl around me all this points above point out to me to b selfish which is not at all difficult n i thnk i will enjoi my new phase in life ……. lets c how well it goes ………… but i wud wan to thank few ppl in my life coz thy were nvr selfish to me n so i will nvr b selfish to thm n i knw thy mean friends to me for life …………
hey nice article
hey thnks for readin tis crap
it was my mistake coz i get so emotional wid my frds n stupidly go on makin best frds ………….. …………………….
it’s not your mistake buddy…because your not stupid but your friend is stupid it rose a unstoppable storm in your friendship……
so it’s necessary to make friends and to get best friend out of them …..keep making friends
Hello Purvi,
I am very much impressed by your articles. I would like to add something in this article. You do help others, but do not expect. If you do it for 3-4 times, they will come to you and will do everything.
All relationship in this is world is a “BUSINESS”. “What is Business?” Business means – Give something , take something…… Its like a barter system.
Let me take some examples:
1) Husband and Wife : We expect that we get love from out partners. We try but if we do not get love from our spouse. We stop to love our spouse. — Means Business..
2) Parents and Child : They take care of everything but they expect their child / children do take care of when they will be in old age. —- Give and take means Business….
3) Friendship: You have written more than me on Friendship… Business business business…
We live in this Corporate World, and the only thing we need to do it BUSINESS..
Thats it.. You might know me by name. I am Ankur Patel your friend’s friend.
Guess whoz friend am I?
hey i kwn u …. sangus frd rite
yup.. I am her friend…
Keep writing..
Ah, i like ur blog! Very honest, and your thoughts seem so familiar … as if my own!
Agree with one
2) I believe you must have faith in yourself and do what is right. You are too precious to be forced by someone to change your ways.
3) Life mein kabhi ki kisi se OBSESSED nahi hone ka. Importance ke naam pe if you get obsessed with a person he/she will raise his defences. Too much of a sweet thing is bad.
4) Sounds cruel. but at times i find myself believing the same. What good is a friend or a partner who cant carry you when you are injured.
keep writing!
hi dear!!!!!!!
good thing and very fact u brought out of the people so called as friends….
many worst things happened to me too and that too by my closest friends did that ….
never expect anything and never get obsessed with anything ….
u might not know me ……
keeping posting ur ideas ….good to read thoseeeeeeee…
this topic is kinda bad thinking towards frndship…… whole of ur negative vibes r coming thru…. ughhhhh…… m no one to change ur views…… but i surely dont liek this post